Body Language

Body Language.

There are two kinds of languages, words and body.

The language of body is called body language.

Animals know only body language as they don’t have their own language.

Body language means a language of feelings, language of desire.

Body language is language of limbic brain as well the language of feeling. It is a universal language.

Limbic brain doesn’t know a language of words but limbic brain performs difficult responsibility of survival since years and years.

Limbic reaction is always certain, immediate, honest and authentic reaction.

Limbic reaction has strong connection as it is working since core of the years.

Once I was watching a documentary on kangaroo.  Now days we don’t find this kind of mammal much. Kangaroo gives birth to pre mature baby .The baby kangaroo stays in the pocket of mother kangaroo till it grows up.

Once I was watching a movie in which mother kangaroo delivered a baby who was too tiny and looking like lump of flesh. I was so surprised to see that very next moment of its birth the baby started moving towards that pocket and started sucking milk.

Limbic brain knows our necessity, feelings, thoughts and motive so it can express it by body language.

You will find the same tendency from Boston to Borneo or Ahmadabad to Argentina in every person including a child. If child will not like the food he or she will not eat it. The child will become happy to see his mother. Our body language will change with every different situation. it changes when we are happy or sad ,either it is cold or warm .

We will become uncomfortable with some bad or inauspicious news. We

will get angry if we will miss something, we will become up-set with some un expected situation. Limbic brain has invented this body language since long years.  

We become too happy to see our beloved person. At that time our facial expression changes. Blood circulation as well our heart beats becomes fast.  

There were a boy and a girl in Yale collage library, they were constantly looking to each other, at some moment the girl went to that boy and introduced herself. She was Hillary Rodham but at that moment due to excitement Bill Clinton forgot his name for a while.  

With our past experience we can judge the person buy his behavior and gesture even at the first meeting.

Smile has positive aura which we can feel from even some distance.

Brain takes only three seconds to judge stranger at first sight.

Nalini Ambani, a professor of psychology at Tufts University in Medford, Massachusetts has a deep study on the first impression.

Nalini Ambani says that to know about a hasty judgment of a person is either harmful or helpful is called “thin slice “of experience.

Proficiency is deep process of mind. In ancient time when the people had to have ability of quick judgment when they had to kill someone for their survival.   

Here, people use words to describe....not using words.  Enjoy.

**What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

**The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said. - Peter F. Ducker.

**Electric communication will never be a substitute for the face of someone who with their soul encourages another person to be brave and true. - Charles Dickens

**The human body is the best picture of the human soul. - Ludwig Wittgenstein

**But behavior in the human being is sometimes a defense, a way of concealing motives and thoughts, as language can be a way of hiding your thoughts and preventing communication. - Abraham Maslow

**Who is Mike Judge? Let me think. The only way I could possibly answer that question would be in a nonverbal fashion. I think I could do an interpretive dance that would answer that question for you.
- Mike Judge

**Body language is essential for an actress, even if you don't use your body in an athletic way. Just to be free, to use it like your voice. A body can be small and have incredible violence. A body talks. - Anne Parillau

**Body language is a very powerful tool. We had body language before we had speech, and apparently, 80% of what you understand in a conversation is read through the body, not the words. - Deborah Bull

**Get in touch with the way the other person feels. Feelings are 55% body language, 38% tone and 7% words. - Unknown

**I speak two languages, Body and English. - Mae West  

**Fie, fie upon her!

There's language in her eye, her cheek, her lip,

Nay, her foot speaks; her wanton spirits look out

At every joint and motive of her body. - William Shakespeare

**Deafness has left me acutely aware of both the duplicity that language is capable of and the many expressions the body cannot hide. - Terry Galloway

**Language is surely too small a vessel to contain these emotions of mind and body that have somehow awakened a response in the spirit. - Radclyffe Hall

**Emotion always has its roots in the unconscious and manifests itself in the body. - Irene Claremont de Castillejo

**The body never lies. - Martha Graham

**Our bodies are apt to be our autobiographies. - Frank Gillette Burgess

**You have to think an awful lot about your motivations or people's behavioral intentions or what their body language can indicate or what's really going on or what makes people sometimes do, sometimes, the irrational things they do. - Ron Silver

**In this respect, I suppose I'm the total opposite of Garry [Kasparov]. With his very emotive body language at the [chess]board he shows and displays all his emotions. I don't. - Vladimir 

**I can't just tell the guys I want the ball, I have to do it with my body language. – La Marcus Aldridge

**You can tell a lot by someone's body language. - Harvey Wolter

**Kids used to sit back and listen to lectures. Now they're leaning in. Body language has changed. - Mike Harvey

**A blur of blinks, taps, jiggles pivots and shifts ... the body language of a man wishing urgently to be elsewhere. - Edward R. Murrow

**I want guys who want to be here. I want guys who are energetic and passionate. I didn't see any passion from Todd. You could tell form his body language that he didn't want to be here. - Perry Florio

**Experienced trial attorneys tend to rely on instinct when picking a jury. You get an idea of the kind of people that you are looking for and pay careful attention to their answers and body language. - James Diamond

**Not only is her body language revealing, but so are her silences, which I find remarkable for an actress. It's how she doesn't say things verbally that I find exceedingly communicative. - Laurence Kurdish.

**The mood was terrible. You could see it in everybody's eyes. The body language was just defeated. When they put me in I was hoping I could give us some energy and try to bring us back. - Billy Campbell

**I was analyzing the guys' nonverbal communication. I learned that in sociology. When I see that, when I see fatigue, some negative things, you've got to go straight at them. - Glen Davis

**There's a constant communication going on when you're dancing, most of it nonverbal. You have to learn to communicate in a different way. For the ladies, you have to learn to follow. That's kind of tough. - Suzanne Perez

**Eye rolling is one of the nonverbal signs that is pretty much always aggressive. - Steve Watts

**Verbal and nonverbal activity is a unified whole, and theory and methodology should be organized or created to treat it as such. - Kenneth L. Pike

**In terms of nonverbal communication, by not seeing the full face - whether it's bangs in the eyes of a woman or a man, or a beard - there can be some who perceive the individual is hiding something. - Judith Rasband

**The more elaborate our means of communication, the less we communicate. - Joseph Priestley

**The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place. - George Bernard Shaw

**Effective communication is 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know. - Jim Rhone

**Use non-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S = Smile O = Open Posture F = Forward Lean T = Touch E = Eye Contact N = Nod. - Unknown

**There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it. - Dale Carnegie

**When the eyes say one thing, and the tongue another, a practiced man relies on the language of the first. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

 "If language was given to men to conceal their thoughts, then gesture’s purpose was to disclose them." John Napier.